Roundup: Billboard invites people to ‘drag him away’; this is definitely child trauma, but what to do?

This interactive billboard in London’s Eustis Station invites people to use their mobile phones to drag the abuser away from a woman….drag him across several large screens. It’s a clever way to make the point….especially as it focuses the change of behavior on the abuser, rather than a sometimes more traditional question: “Why doesn’t the victim leave?”

IN THIS LETTER TO AN ADVICE COLUMN, a grandmother asks what to do about how her daughter and son-in-law behave with their children:

The parents think that they’re doing a good job because they don’t hit their children, but they do scream at their little girl, they demean her and they can be extremely hateful to her, even though she is loving, smart and athletic. She is, however, a challenging child who doesn’t always listen, who can be defiant at times and who has always had trouble falling asleep. Her father reacts to it by staying with her for more than an hour at night or by forcing her back to bed while he boils with anger.

If my daughter sees her child misbehave, she says, ”You’ll never have any friends.” And she yelled at her when the child’s attention waned when she was playing soccer. “You’re just too little to play!” she said. And then they threw her into the car and drove her home — screaming all the way — so she could take a nap.

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